Joy is dangerous.
It’s wild.
It’s subversive.
And it’s contagious.
Sometimes joy shows up in the moments its arrival is least expected, after a season of protracted sorrow, when the worst seems a forgone conclusion, when you’ve been without it so long that you forget what it feels like.
For the past eight years we’ve had a lot that is admirable. We’ve had convictions, we’ve had our values, we’ve had our burdens and our work and our efforts. We’ve had passion for the hurting and the helpless and the vulnerable. We’ve had a tenacity and perseverance that has kept the hatred at bay.
What’s been largely absent has been joy—and many of us are now realizing how much we’ve missed it: to feel expectancy again, to find ourselves in proximity to possibility, to believe better days are in the windshield and not just the rearview mirror.
And this joy has been a surprise to everyone, perhaps most of all to those of us who have found it taking up residence within us—as if someone has shown up to the wrong house and isn’t staying. But we were always supposed to be its home. That’s why we’re on the side we’re on. This is joy’s homecoming. It is a prodigal’s return.
In the span of a few short days, Vice President Harris and her campaign have reminded us why we’re fighting in the first place: so everyone can pursue happiness unfettered, so that no one is a permanent stranger to optimism.
With her beaming smile, her confident countenance, and her clear love for this life, she has given us permission to laugh again, to feel lightness, to dance; to do this important work of equity and justice, not just with a furrowed brow and aching back—but a twinkle in our eyes and a spring in our steps.
Yes, joy is the thing that has returned, and not a moment too soon.
And joy in these days and against this opponent is the greatest weapon we have, because it is nonexistent in him and his movement.
That is why the differences now are so jarring in the most beautiful of ways.
The emotional deficit of the other side is continually on display:
in their contorted, sneering disposition; in their so readily brandished middle fingers; in their steady spit showers of verbal filth.
It is a cult of grievance, a misery movement, a community of opposition.
With each angry gesture and with every slandering epithet, they reveal in high-definition detail what it looks like when someone loses the light inside them.
War does this to the human heart—and these people are at war with the world because that is all fear can produce.
And this heart distinction has become the dividing line in this version of America.
It is between joyful people and miserable people: those who live open-handed toward the world and those whose fists are balled tightly; people who are driven by compassion and those fueled by anger; people who want a bigger table—and those feel it belongs solely to them.
As disheartening as it is to witness people this internally toxic, it’s a cautionary reminder of who we do not want to become, of what we can’t let the fight do to us.
We have nurture the goodness inside us despite the outside badness; to not be defined by how many things we hate.
Our default response to this life can be hope and not derision.
May we who oppose this national malignancy, never become so devoid of lightness that we resemble those who celebrate it.
May we never applaud someone’s suffering, never weaponize our religion to do harm, never grow comfortable with hearts that are only capable of anger.
May we never lose our laughter, our softness, our lightness in this life.
Kamala Harris has unleashed wild, unpredictable, contagious joy—and we aren’t going to stop until every loving and open-hearted human being here gets a chance to feel it fully.
It’s time to renovate this place with eyes fixed on what we love, with hearts affixed to our sleeves, and with ready smiles that hateful people will never understand.
Spot on. Didn’t you have the below Elayne Griffin Baker note on you site way back in 2020? It’s been a long wait……
In addition to everything else we've lost, we've lost the joy. This is floating around and I thought I would share. "There is no literature or poetry in this
White House. No music.
No Kennedy Center award celebrations.
There are no pets in this White House.
No loyal man’s best friend. No Socks the family cat.
No kids’ science fairs.
No times when this president takes off his
blue suit-red tie uniform and becomes human, except when he puts on his white shirt-khaki pants
uniform and hides from Americans to
play golf.
There are no images of the first family
enjoying themselves together in a moment
of relaxation.
No Obamas on the beach in Hawaii
moments, or Bushes fishing in Kennebunkport, no Reagans on horseback, no Kennedys playing touch football on the Cape.
I was thinking the other day of the summer
when George H couldn’t catch a fish
and all the grandkids made signs and
counted the fish-less days.
And somehow, even if you didn’t even like GHB, you got caught up in the joy of a family that loved each other and had fun.
Where did that country go? Where did all
of the fun and joy and expressions of love and happiness go? We used to be a country that did the ice bucket challenge and raised millions for charity.
We used to have a president that calmed and
soothed the nation instead dividing it.
And a First Lady that planted a garden
instead of ripping one out.
We are rudderless and joyless.
We have lost the cultural aspects of
society that make America great.
We have lost our mojo. Our fun, our happiness.
The cheering on of others.
The shared experiences of humanity that makes it all worth it.
The challenges AND the triumphs that we shared and celebrated.
The unique can-do spirit Americans
have always been known for.
We have lost so much
In so short a time."
~Elayne Griffin Baker
Oh Lord, how beautiful! It made me so happy to read that, even with tears in my eyes. Love WILL triumph over hate!